Sunday, May 9, 2010

LOVE AND COUPLE?

love of a lifetime by rahmat ws.So, I was thinking when i've seen a lot of my friends were involved in a what-they-claimed as a serious relationship with their so-called soul mates. I'm happy to see them happy as they said that they have found the right person to fall to. I've asked one of them, 'Kalau couple2 ni rase camne ek?, best tak?'. Haha..it's not that i've never fallen to somebody before, but it was all the way back then and i almost forgot that person already. But maybe i shouldn't ignore the fact that nobody like me..hahaha...Even in school, the number of those who involved in a relationship was quite high and i believe that they were not mistaken to raise this issue with their partners since they were all grown ups. 

Regardless, I really do feel that i should address a few things if you were or going to be in a serious relationship with somebody that you think suit you best. Since i've seen a lot of my friends being rejected in their relationship, i suggest that you prepare for any available possibility that may happen. Most of your friends don't want to see you to be saddened and depressed due to failed relationship isn't? Besides, a few of my friends mentioned that they will 'delay' their relationship in order to focus on something else; study and etc. My friend told me that there is no such thing as a delay in a serious relationship and i say it's true. By ensuring that you future will not be jeopardized, i thought that a relationship can come anytime and anywhere. In fact, the number of those who continued their relationship that were made since childhood were too little. 

Some of my friends were involved in a relationship due to the fact that she was envious with her friends, in which most of them already have their partners. If a relationship is made due to jealousy, then i believe that it's a worthless approach. Please be rational in making our decisions. It's not that i'm supporting those who oppose coupling but i'm just concern.

Most of my girl friends seemed to be disappointed when they were dumped by the boys and claimed that their lives are now useless. 

That's why i'm posting this.

14 comments:

Nurul Awanis said...

"most of your girl friends" . Haha , sound so hot . Hahaha .

Dian Zulkarnain said...

haha je aussi, me too, not lucky enough to have the experience of such! X)

wargh i do feel a little backwards i might add, but heck, who cares, huh? it's not so much of a deal anyway. haha. ^^

the most important thing is to just be ourselves. there's no need to do every single thing other people do just to feel cool.

when the time is right later, then, well, things will naturally turn out just fine. ;) (cheh macam relationship counsellor lah pulak i ni hahahaha.)

enjoy being single when you still have the time! :)

Luqman Safwan C.M Fauzi said...

to awanis..
tu amksudnye kawan pompuan la weh!hahaha

Luqman Safwan C.M Fauzi said...

well dian, u really sound like a counselor...ni la senior consultant kite nanti haha

princess ilah said...

haha.. go with the flow...
but, utk aq, study comes first...
rite now, treasure our family love first..
t bile ko da kwin t, jgn lupe jmput lak~ haha

Anonymous said...

assalamualaikum...

my ustaz said that couple is forbidden in Islam. It's not the right way for a relationship. It's Haram. If u always surfing ILuvIslam web you will found that most of the people like to ask 'kapel tu boleh ke?'. The sisters and brothers there sometimes got angry as they like to opened new forum just to ask about this. One of the sister said that "This issue is hot amongst us. It's not the time yet for teenagers to involved in love. Just wait the time you want to get married, then only find a suitable girl or boy."

Luqman Safwan C.M Fauzi said...

to ilah..
mmg la aku jemput..tp aku tak jmput ko sorang..aku jmput ko ngn suami ko ngn anak2 ko ngn nenek ko ngn mak kepade mak bla bla....hahaha

Luqman Safwan C.M Fauzi said...

to anonymous..
i understand that couple is haram at the side of the religion..
but since more and more of my friends are involve in this thing..i believe that we should take any possible approach in order to ensure that if they failed in their relationship..it will not affect their future..

if you read again my blog, u can see that i do not support any side at all..thnks tau

Anonymous said...

lets divide this into two-youth, they want to try, to feel the same and to share the experience their friends have so they ll be at the same level with their frends.This is where the desire comes from.Musics, dress,food,issues,all to be recognized. I believe that in anything we do, we must first filter and sensor it with our knowledge specifically our religion-does it allow this?thus, the answer will always be there and youll never in danger or hurt anywhere you scattered in this world..God Willing (tawbstms)

Luqman Safwan C.M Fauzi said...

la..ingat sape tdi..tawbstms rupenye..ok..i can see your point there..then i believe that u're right..haha

baaqiyghazali said...

i ve never been in a relationship, and my life is colourfull, so, i guess thats is not important, =)

Luqman Safwan C.M Fauzi said...

to baqiy..
jngan la kate relationship 2 tak important...nnti tak kawin la kau nanti..hahaha

Anonymous said...

Assalamualaikum...wau,this was something new to me..you have really grown up to a point where i can't reach Angah (maybe its too high,'Gayat'...haha) ...still remember your quates when we were in primary school..'be patient2'...anyway,a thumb's up from me your old and not so well known friend of yours...Hoping to see more of this wonderful stories and brilliant thoughts of yours onwards...

Hakim

Luqman Safwan C.M Fauzi said...

weh hakim!laa...ingat sape tadi...camne skung? shat?