So, I was thinking when i've seen a lot of my friends were involved in a what-they-claimed as a serious relationship with their so-called soul mates. I'm happy to see them happy as they said that they have found the right person to fall to. I've asked one of them, 'Kalau couple2 ni rase camne ek?, best tak?'. Haha..it's not that i've never fallen to somebody before, but it was all the way back then and i almost forgot that person already. But maybe i shouldn't ignore the fact that nobody like me..hahaha...Even in school, the number of those who involved in a relationship was quite high and i believe that they were not mistaken to raise this issue with their partners since they were all grown ups.
Regardless, I really do feel that i should address a few things if you were or going to be in a serious relationship with somebody that you think suit you best. Since i've seen a lot of my friends being rejected in their relationship, i suggest that you prepare for any available possibility that may happen. Most of your friends don't want to see you to be saddened and depressed due to failed relationship isn't? Besides, a few of my friends mentioned that they will 'delay' their relationship in order to focus on something else; study and etc. My friend told me that there is no such thing as a delay in a serious relationship and i say it's true. By ensuring that you future will not be jeopardized, i thought that a relationship can come anytime and anywhere. In fact, the number of those who continued their relationship that were made since childhood were too little.
Some of my friends were involved in a relationship due to the fact that she was envious with her friends, in which most of them already have their partners. If a relationship is made due to jealousy, then i believe that it's a worthless approach. Please be rational in making our decisions. It's not that i'm supporting those who oppose coupling but i'm just concern.
Most of my girl friends seemed to be disappointed when they were dumped by the boys and claimed that their lives are now useless.
That's why i'm posting this.